There are two things involved in life- it is either a 1 or 0. You are either alive or dead. Winning or losing. Conquering or being drawned in the affairs of life. There is no place in - between, no boundary, no comfort zone- I want to win!

Life is simple in its grandest, and gorgeous in its most mundane. The path we choose is dependent on us and us alone. And wherever it steers, and whatever challenges it brings our way; it is never beyond our control.

This explains my view about life---

When things in your life seem almost too much to handle,
When 24 Hours in a day is not enough,
Remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him.  When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.

He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the Jar.  He shook the jar lightly.  The pebbles rolled into the open
areas between the golf balls.

He then asked the students again if the jar was full..
They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table And poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

"Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided,
"I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.


The golf balls are the important things -  family, children, health,
Friends, and favourite passions - things that if everything else was
Lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, house, and
Car.

The sand is everything else --the small stuff.

"If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued,
"there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.
The same goes for life.

If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff,
You will never have room for the things that are
Important to you.

So...

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Play with your children.  Take time to get medical checkups.
Take your partner out to dinner.  Play another 18.

There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal.

"Take care of the golf balls first --the things that really matter.
Set your priorities.  The rest is just sand."

One of the students raised her hand and inquired
What the coffee represented.

The professor smiled.  "I'm glad you asked".
It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem,
there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."

Please share this with someone you care about, life does not have to be work and work and work and work. There are some good in this life worth holding tight inspite of busy schedules and choking routines!